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    5/5/2006

    寫給親愛的自己...

    親愛的自己:
     
    我知道你不愛制定計劃, 最遠能想到的不過是諸如"這一年把貸款還清"之類的沒志氣的事。 但是,年歲漸長,也該對自己提些長遠的要求,我也不多提, 就一個----要相信自己對人事物第一印象的正確性。
     
    對第一印象正確性的質疑,來自於隨和,寬容,不自信和不死心。 世界上有些人,你對它隨和,它就會認為你好欺負;你對它寬容,它不會被感化, 只會變本加利挑戰底限;你的不自信,導致事件越來越拖沓, 就像你在馬路上總是主動讓路給迎面來人,然後就會左讓右讓兩個人誰也過不去; 你的不死心,每每令自己陷入困境,憂柔寡斷到給心蒙上一層陰霾, 原有的伶俐都看不到了。
     
    所以,要學會果斷,學會堅持自己的判斷,學會不妥協,在無窮無盡的人生苦海邊, 找到一塊可立足觀風景的小小礁石,並且堅決不再下來隨波逐流。
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    

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    很久没联系,
    也没见你上线或更新。
    似乎都失去很多机会了解你的生活了。
     
    一切还好吧~~
    (如果日子过得开开心心的话,就当熊的问候是废话了哈~~)
     
    周三凌晨就走了,看来也只有回来之后见了!
    多多上网联系啊!
    保重咯!
    (会记得带土特产孝敬主人的!)
    May 29
    Picture of Anonymous
    其实不用知道我是谁 wrote:

    会去看海城之夜,记得帮我留票……

    May 11
    Picture of Anonymous
    爱与痛的边缘 wrote:
    你让我开心快乐,你自己也一定要如此,珍惜现在所拥有的,追求创造更多更美好的未来,祝福......
    May 10
    di wuwrote:
    加油~
    May 10
    Skiven Wuwrote:
    有时候直觉要比缜密思考之后得出的结果更为可信
    相信自己对事物的第一印象其实也是自信的一种表现方式……
    May 9
    琳 耶wrote:
    不错不错。。长大了呢。。。
    May 9
    Picture of Anonymous
    幸福微尘 wrote:
    一直以来都是潜水
    今天浮出水面
    8错
    第一页
    还没看文章呢
    赶快看去
    May 9
    Linwrote:
    随和大方是你的优点啊。贝贝怎麽了?突然感伤起来了
    May 8
    LU XIYUNwrote:
    寒一下以为自己是沙发的板凳。。。
    May 8
    dachuanwrote:
    你很清醒
    May 7
    Picture of Anonymous
    IORI wrote:
    背景换了  还不错   比灰色的好   看了后马山就让我想到了一杯热奶茶的等待……咯咯
    May 6
    --- ---wrote:
    跟我用一样的主体背景.......
    May 6
    wrote:
    实际很容易迷失,只是多少的问题,不过你这样想还是对的,尽量做到吧~
    May 5

    你被点名了~~去看我的SPACE~~

     

    May 5
    我就喜欢你随和的性格~哈哈!~
    目标是要有的!~ 大家要一起加油!~
    May 5
    总是顺其自然,不好!
    May 5
    说到做到哦,我们帮你监督!
    不过有时候对自己太苛刻就会很辛苦,偶尔放纵一下也是可以的嘛!
    嘻嘻,顺其自然的好……^_^
    May 5
    yue wangwrote:
    好好加油吧……
    May 5
    MD Xiaoye Mawrote:
    哈哈,有目标就好,加油阿~~~
    May 5
    Picture of Anonymous
    IORI wrote:
    sofa!sofa!hahahahaha……
    学会果断而不是武断;懂得坚持而不是固执;明白不妥协是在退一步也没有海阔天空的时候……恭喜你!又向前进步了

    凭您的文笔,什么时候也写一篇“寄坐沙发的人”以谢我们坐沙发之功吧  哈哈
    May 5

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